Safe Sex is the Best Sex
 Sex is great and many find it worth the risks that they take, in
regards to pregnancy and sexually transmissible diseases. Many think all
the fun is gone once they begin to take precautions to protect
themselves from unwanted health concerns. It does not have to be that
way, though educating yourself and finding what works for you can insure
a long and healthy sex life, one that you can thoroughly enjoy! First,
consider your partner or partners. Realize that having sex may seem fun
and casual but the exchange you make with another is a pretty serious
one. Body fluids are either healthy or unhealthy. They can carry all the
known sexually transmittable diseases and fatal ones such as AIDS and
Syphilis. One night stands are really a thing of the past. Having sex
with a stranger is not cool anymore, and those continuing to live this
way really aren’t the ones you would consider building a life with. So
be picky! Find out all you can about this new interest of yours; their
history and their habits now. You deserve the best. The Pill is the
protection against pregnancy. However, it will not protect against
STD’s. The condom is still the best method to protect oneself from
STD’s. From there, if both partners are healthy and willing to stay
faithful to one another, then there should be no worry. Until then,
learning how to use condoms properly can be a lot of fun and can lead to
some very sexy foreplay! Make the most of taking care of one another by
learning and practicing safe sex.
 Another delicate subject that is hard to talk about is anal sex.
Still, if your partner has a request for it, then be prepared to make an
educated decision on this matter by understanding the complications of
anal sex. No worry of pregnancy, of course, but the risk of injury and
transmitting an infectious disease is much higher with this practice.
Anal skin is much thinner than the skin of the vagina and tears easier.
It should be performed in a very gentle manner with lots of water based
lubricant. Vaginal sex should not be performed after anal sex because,
obviously, the bacteria found in the anus will transfer, setting the
female up for very uncomfortable infections.
Oral sex is another pleasurable act that does need consideration in
regards to protection against STD’s, a dental dam to prevent
transmission of bacteria into the mouth, which is highly susceptible to
infectious diseases and extremely embarrassing! The majority of couples
loves to play with sex toys and may not be aware that they need to be
kept clean and hygienic before use. Sterilizing wipes can be purchased.
Those that are labeled to kill anti bacteria will do just fine. Another
option is using a mild disinfectant and warm water to wash and rinse
your toys and then store them away in a nice dry place! To be doubly
sure that you are safe when using your toys, washing them after use and,
again, before use, is the safest bet.
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